Wasn't sure what the point of this thread was but its seemed like the best place to send you the following message:

Obviously, my response to your advice to Outsider offended you and that wasn't my intention. I am sorry that I hurt your feelings. I should have waited until the following day before sending that message or asked for a clarification as you suggested.

"you have my permission Zane to completely disregard everything I have said and not give it a further thought."

Frankly, darlin', I don't need anyone's permission to think or feel anything. However if my words hurt you, letting me know that is useful for both of us so we can resolve the matter and move on with new knowledge so as not to repeat the hurt. This seems like a healthy approach. Because I respect you, I rely on you to let me know if you think I'm wrong.

---I'm sorry it bothered you when I said you have my permission not to listen to a word I said to you. I say that to the men in my family and they seem to like it. Me telling you that you have permission not to listen to what I say means(my intention) I'm not going to fight with you for your responses.

---I appreciate your apology but you didn't hurt my feelings at all. I just wrote you a post in response to let you know that maybe you didn't understand all of what I meant.