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Scapegoaters (Part 1)
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Dee Ann

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1. Scapegoaters (Part 1)
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A scapegoater is anyone who blames others for something that he/she doesn't want to face. The scapegoater transfers the responsiblity of her/his own feelings and problems onto the scapegoat, often without any awareness of how seriously scapegoating may harm the scapegoat, and in a deeper sense even the scapegoater her/himself. Because the scapegoater is quite unconscious of what he/she is doing, there may be almost no guilt feelings, sometimes the scapegoater actively denies her/his own actions and feelings.
Date: 28 Feb, 2007 on 05:33 p.m.
Dee Ann

ip: 207.200.116.72
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Unfortunately the scapegoater seldom acts alone. In the scapegoating process the scapegoat is often blamed by everyone around, as emotional and intense accusations by the scapegoater may have a strong suggestive effect on bystanders, without anyone being
aware of how and why it all started. The scapegoat naturally feels anxious and frustrated, yet it may take a very long time before the scapegoat really becomes aware of the amount of negative feelings projected on her/him.
Date: 28 Feb, 2007 on 11:34 p.m.
vil

ip: 4.152.120.68
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Dee...what's up with this? I thought you were a healed and happy person?
Date: 01 Mar, 2007 on 11:57 a.m.
Dee Ann

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Vil -
I say what I choose to say and nothing else. No amount of insults from you will ever change me.
Date: 01 Mar, 2007 on 03:46 p.m.
vil

ip: 4.129.82.150
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Dee Ann (01 Mar, 2007 03:46 p.m.):
Vil -
I say what I choose to say and nothing else. No amount of insults from you will ever change me.

Insults?

Me? Change you? (You've got a big ego there, little lady.)

Where do you get these ideas? And don't anyone else answer for her...let Dee say what's on her mind...only she knows, right?
Date: 02 Mar, 2007 on 11:31 p.m.
Dee Ann

ip: 207.200.116.72
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Vil -
No one really ever changes anyone!

(Vil's post) Me? Change you? (You've got a big ego there, little lady.)
Date: 03 Mar, 2007 on 12:17 a.m.
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