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annie
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| thanks again - I agree with you in a way but I wonder why they would do something symbolically to say they had changed (same as saying they were wrong). Why not just leave things as they were - I was willing to talk to them again as if nothing had happened and was amicable and friendly with them. I think I will drop this after your next reply as I know I'll never really know anyway - it's just that I would like to try to understand it. |
| Date: 05 Mar, 2007 on 02:25 a.m. |
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vil
ip: 4.152.234.166 |
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| Annie, did you happen to ask them why they were doing what they were doing? |
| Date: 05 Mar, 2007 on 06:06 p.m. |
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vil
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| Annie, we know all families are different, but human nature reacts in only so many ways to given situations. So it's not really so hard to find reasons to speculate why your family did what they did...the problem though comes in being able to find one you accept as reasonable. Since you're not answering back on this subject...I hope that what you decide to find reasonable does not continue to make you feel suspicious. |
| Date: 05 Mar, 2007 on 06:17 p.m. |
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annie
ip: 24.222.210.240 |
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vil (05 Mar, 2007 06:17 p.m.):
Annie, we know all families are different, but human nature reacts in only so many ways to given situations. So it's not really so hard to find reasons to speculate why your family did what they did...the problem though comes in being able to find one you accept as reasonable. Since you're not answering back on this subject...I hope that what you decide to find reasonable does not continue to make you feel suspicious.
I just got this message - I'm not very computor savvy and this is the first discussion forum I've been on. No I didn't ask them what they were doing. To them I just took everything as they were saying it. I did tell them not to communicate as it got me down. So why did they do it again? I'm not a suspicious person - just the opposite if anything - I trust too much. I think it would have been reasonable for them to say it outright. (By the way - I'm not the only one who thinks things were done that way when I told them about it. |
| Date: 05 Mar, 2007 on 08:55 p.m. |
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annie
ip: 24.222.210.240 |
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annie (05 Mar, 2007 08:55 p.m.):
vil (05 Mar, 2007 06:17 p.m.):
Annie, we know all families are different, but human nature reacts in only so many ways to given situations. So it's not really so hard to find reasons to speculate why your family did what they did...the problem though comes in being able to find one you accept as reasonable. Since you're not answering back on this subject...I hope that what you decide to find reasonable does not continue to make you feel suspicious.
I just got this message - I'm not very computor savvy and this is the first discussion forum I've been on. No I didn't ask them what they were doing. To them I just took everything as they were saying it. I did tell them not to communicate as it got me down (I said it got me down). So why did they do it again? I'm not a suspicious person - just the opposite if anything - I trust too much. I think it would have been reasonable for them to say it outright. (By the way - I'm not the only one who thinks things were done that way when I told them about it.
Hi vil - the reason I never asked them about it, I think, is because I figured they would deny it. - because they were doing it "in the dark" so to speak so they didn't want it brought to light did they? Or they would have just said it - that's what I mean when I say I wonder why they were doing it that way. By the way - I really am not a suspicious person - I tend to see the good in people and the glass half full - and. like I said. other people have agreed with me about it - I like to get other peoples opinions - as you know!!!! (I don't know how to send a happy face logo - but I'm smiling! Thanks again |
| Date: 05 Mar, 2007 on 10:45 p.m. |
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vil
ip: 4.252.39.139 |
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Annie, I didn't mean 'suspicious' in a bad way....change 'suspicious' to 'wondering'.  I'm done with this subject too I guess. I don't think I've really understood what you were hoping to get from this message board.
Peace out. |
| Date: 05 Mar, 2007 on 11:16 p.m. |
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annie
ip: 24.222.210.240 |
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vil (05 Mar, 2007 11:16 p.m.):
Annie, I didn't mean 'suspicious' in a bad way....change 'suspicious' to 'wondering'. I'm done with this subject too I guess. I don't think I've really understood what you were hoping to get from this message board.
Peace out.
Vil - you helped me. When you said change the word suspicious to wondering it made me realize that all the wondering in the world is not going to tell me why they did that. What I was hoping to get from the board was an answer to my question - had anyone else had this happen to them and it was answered in the affirmative by Dee Ann (that helped me). Also I tend to analyze a lot, but this is the end of analyzing this one! So thanks again - you seem like a wise person - you see all sides of things. You have had a lot to contend with and I wish you all the best. Peace out. |
| Date: 06 Mar, 2007 on 01:36 a.m. |
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annie
ip: 24.222.210.240 |
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annie (06 Mar, 2007 01:36 a.m.):
vil (05 Mar, 2007 11:16 p.m.):
Annie, I didn't mean 'suspicious' in a bad way....change 'suspicious' to 'wondering'. I'm done with this subject too I guess. I don't think I've really understood what you were hoping to get from this message board.
Peace out.
Vil - you helped me. When you said change the word suspicious to wondering it made me realize that all the wondering in the world is not going to tell me why they did that. What I was hoping to get from the board was an answer to my question - had anyone else had this happen to them and it was answered in the affirmative by Dee Ann (that helped me). Also I tend to analyze a lot, but this is the end of analyzing this one! So thanks again - you seem like a wise person - you see all sides of things. You have had a lot to contend with and I wish you all the best. Peace out.
....just wanted to make sure you got this..... |
| Date: 06 Mar, 2007 on 01:50 a.m. |
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Dee Ann
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(Dee's response to Annie's post)
Glad I could help you ANNIE.  (Annies post) - What I was hoping to get from the board was an answer to my question - had anyone else had this happen to them and it was answered in the affirmative by Dee Ann (that helped me). |
| Date: 08 Mar, 2007 on 05:59 a.m. |
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