Hey MoS, do you know this person? The Superfur posts made me laugh at first but your messages made me think you think you know the poster and thought it was me. Not so.

I figured it was Loner/Survivor/Things still "seething with anger" and looking to blame others for her problems. I imagine she created yet another identity to stir the pot, posted the original messge from work, then found her way to an internet cafe to post more. By using the rhyme and attacking Dee Ann and Vil I think she wants others to believe I'm Superfur. Anyone who knows me at all must know that I don't hide behind invented personae or anonymity. When I have something to say I say it. Plus, I'm not a rhymer.

While I still keep an eye on this board because there are many on here I like and support as well as to be a support to newcomers, I have nothing to say to Dee Ann or Vil either directly or indirectly. As for Loner/Survivor/Things...

I retract my previous message: you have no right to post outrageous lies about me or even have valid feelings based on those lies. None of what you said is true and you know that. I don't believe your story about finding a therapist who validated your anger towards me and told you to dump and run from this board. Dumping and running doesn't resolve anything and any therapist worth their salt would help you see that your anger is your own and yours to resolve.

Blaming others, the very definition of scapegoating, is an easy way out but will not alleviate your suffering. Sooner or later you'll find another reason to blame someone else for your feelings and will relive this drama all over again. Surely a decent therapist would help you see that and not tell you to go to a scapegoat forum and blame others for your anger. Really, it makes no sense.

I told no lies about you, I know it, you know it, or then again maybe you dont know it - carry on living in your fantasy world, just dont bring me into it!

I'm sorry to have stirred the pot but I have been reading the Forum for some months and found a lot of interesting and helpful advice on it. Sadly, some users seem to a have taken over to the detriment of others (all others) and I thought would give vent to some of my feelings of frustration at this. It's not nice to have thread title mocked or to have someone attack what you post in an aggressive manner. On a site like this stories have to be taken at face value. If you cannae offer some insight or support then say nothing. Easy, too easy, to hide behind the annonymity this site offers and take the pesh out of people .

Narcissus and Sychophant, two names to play with but they don't like the game?

Interesting that others have noted the possibility of dual identity posters. Funny, some people don't even bother trying to pretend. They get no response and just answer to their own post. At least the "don't be a fool" type make the effort!